Hi All - This is Troy.
We had a really tough morning as you've already likely read about. Two things are clear to me now and I want to share them.
First, life is very tenuous - very fragile - and very fleeting. I would give anything to be able to interact with Hyatt again... to hold her, talk with her, smile and laugh with her - and share the joy of life with her. Please do this with your family right now. Stop what you are doing - stop all the busyness of life and go spend some time with your loved ones.
Second - pray for a miracle. I stumbled on this front this morning and last night. I lost my faith that God would see Hyatt through this. Please pray for Hyatt, for our Kids, our loved ones, and lastly - please pray for me to maintain my faith than knowledge that God will work His wonders.
Sid and I play a game ... it goes like this:
Daddy: "Sid, how long has it been since you kissed Daddy"
Sid: "Too long!"
Daddy: "What are you going to do about it?"
Sid: "Fix it!"
Daddy: "How are you going to fix it?"
Sid: "With Kisses!!!"
So let me ask you this: How long has it been since you kissed your wife, husband, mother, father, kids, loved ones?
Troy.
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Too long and I'm going to fix it. Now.
Love and Prayers to you Hyatt and the girls.
Beth and Jim
Troy, I am praying hard for a miracle for Hyatt and I am praying too that God holds you tight and gives you the strength and courage you need to get through this difficult time for yourself and your little ones. I am praying too for Hyatt's parents, your parents and all the family. "May our Father in heaven look down upon Hyatt and bless her with the healing that only He is possible to deliver in Jesus' name. Amen." With prayers of love and caring, Betty Edwards, Ocala, FL
Troy, I and everyone I know are praying for a miracle today. Love you. Tracy
Troy -- we've not met, I was a colleague of Hyatt's at EPA. She cares deeply about the environment and I know she made a hard decision when she decided to stay at home with your two daughters. Thank goodness she did. I don't pray, but I plan to share your letter with my Congregation tomorrow morning as an achingly moving and important reminder of what is most important in life.
All my thoughts are with you and your family.
Kristina Heinemann
Washington, DC
Speaking for Troy's Tech Fellows siblings, I'd like to say that we are praying more than we have in years. He's one of the finest men I know and Hyatt is a princess in my eyes.
The Tech Fellows, all 75 of us, send our blessings and prayers. I know that God will see us through. Now I'm going to kiss my wife and hug my baby girls. With sincere love, Byron.
I am a friend of Hyatt's from her grad school days @ IU. She & I were part of a big group of friends - referred to as the "SPEA gang" by my wife and probably other spouses as well - including Troy. I was the oldest (and while "& wisest" would match-up nicely here, it would be quickly shot down by the others), and Hyatt was one of the youngest. Hyatt & I had other differences, too - Hyatt was much more religious, much more focused, and much more driven than me to name just a few. Individual differences were the norm within the gang though – a big difference for me from my undergrad friends, all of who were cut from more or less the same cloth. It was these differences though that made the gang very special! I know that everyone in the gang has Hyatt, Troy, Sidney, Rebekah, and the rest of their family in their thoughts and/or prayers.
In some ways, Hyatt & I may have more in common today than we did @ IU. We’re both married and both parents now. And while thinking of Hyatt’s situation just as a friend would be terribly, terribly sad, when I consider it as a fellow spouse & parent, it becomes something that is hard to fully imagine or comprehend. It breaks my heart. Hyatt, Troy, Sid, & Bekah, you are in my thoughts and in my heart, and I wish you all strength, courage, wisdom, & peace, both now and in the days and years ahead. I know that my wife Sabrina feels the same way. Our 18-month old daughter Ocean, while clueless about all this, would be very happy to color with Sidney.
As I write this, Ocean is napping and Sabrina is out buying nylons for a wedding that we’ll attend this afternoon. I can’t wait to see, hug, & kiss them both! I also can’t help but think of the duality of life as I both reflect on a seriously hospitalized friend and prepare to attend a good friend’s wedding…joy and pain, peaks and valleys…life! I am not normally one who prays…but as the SPEA gang knows, I don’t e-mail much either…and here is an e-mail. Maybe I can pull the priest from the wedding aside for a little help.
With peace, love, & hope,
-B.
Troy, we know that Hyatt is fighting for her life. We are praying hard for her and we know that you've been very strong in supporting her too. Don't give up your faith and hope! God listens to our prayers and He definitely has the best plan for you and your family. This event emphasizes to us the importance of family and we will be cherishing each other even more.
Chris & Yin Ting Milas
Troy,
I just heard from Steve about what happened. Know that we are all praying for you and Hyatt. I hope with you for a miracle. But whatever happens we are here for you.
Please just let us know if there's anything else we can do.
Love,
Scott (and Sue, Alex and Jessie)
I want you all to know that as soon as I got off the phone with Karen this morning I updated my email address book and sent an urgent prayer request for Hyatt and all her family to everyone on that list.
Jane, I love you and am praying that your daughter will return to you, and that you will have the faith and strength to handle whatever her outcome may be.
Dearest Troy and Hyatt,
Oh, how dearly we love you and the girls. I've extended the prayer network well beyond our family to ensure that God holds each of you in the palm of His hand. Prior to my 7:30am Praxis test, I shared the news with my cohort colleagues, who were also taking it, and we reflected in prayer, too. Pete mentioned that sometimes static seems to exist when we pray as our minds become distracted by the many things we believe are important to ask for in life. Well, dear ones, when it comes to your family, the cobwebs suddenly disappeared and the only thing I could pray for was YOUR miracle...Suddenly, nothing else mattered as my heart welled up with such affection and gratitude for having both of you in our lives.
Hyatt, as we think of your beautiful smile, infectious laughter, and abundant, thoughtful nature, we all agree that EACH aspect of you is larger than life. Thus, the tremendous heart that God gave you simply matches all of those qualities that make you a magnificent person, whom we greatly admire and adore. Know sweet one that I keep praying that God is holding you in his arms right now to infuse comfort and strength back into your body. Certainly, God is smiling affectionately upon you as he sees how you've used your precious gifts wisely to touch so many lives. May He let you know how much we love you through our prayers. --Lea, Frederic, Mikaela, and Yanik
Troy,
Hyatt, you and your girls, as well as both sets of parents are in our prayers.
Miracle Happen! We firmly believe in miracles and have had a few within our direct family including each of our boys as well as Debbie's father.
Hyatt will be prayed for at all of the masses at St. Matthew's this weekend.
It is heartening to see the depth of your faith and that of your circle.
Know that you and your family are loved deeply on this earth and we are confident in God's love for your family.
Love,
Uncle Vince and Aunt Debbie
Troy, I have just received news of Hyatt and we are all here sending up prayers for your family. Brent and my son Jack are saying prayers for our dear friend Hy, whom we love! I am praying for a miracle, for healing and for strength for you and your girls. Please know that God is with Hyatt at all times and with you and Sydney and Rebekah. We are here in Florida and I have just sent out a huge email prayer request to church, etc. so there a lot of prayers being lifted up from everywhere! Hyatt and I have known each other for, gosh, 20 years now, (wow)and I know Hyatt's strength and the will she has, and her faith in God! I just wanted you to know that I love Hyatt and you guys very much and I am keeping her in the front of my mind right now and am going to continue to pray for her. I wish that I could physically be there right now, so could someone please whisper in her ear that her "old friend" Meg loves her very much and I am keeping her close to my thoughts and my heart. Please let Herman and Jane know that we are praying for them, as well. I love you, Hy...
Meg
Brent, Meghan, Jack and Holland Henning in Jax, FL
As I sit and type this I see Hyatt in my mind as the most lovely friend I have ever had. I love her as a sister and Troy as a brother I never had. I am getting on a flight in a couple of hours from Dallas to Dulles. I will be there to hold you all in my arms. My heart is breaking and I am unable to express how much I love you all. I will be there soon Troy and all in whatever capacity I can offer. See you soon... Love you , Julie
Note to Jane - I met your beautiful Hyatt about 10 years ago when she was in grad school at I.U. with my daughter Heidi. You know the rest of the story. She was a bride'smaid in Heidi & Jason's wedding. When she & Troy moved to VA, they became close friends with my other daughter, Heather. Both of my girls treasure the special friendship they have with Hyatt, and I know they are blessed to be a part of knowing and loving her. Our families are connected, even though we haven't had a chance to meet (we were supposed to spend Thanksgiving a few years ago, but I ended up staying in IN). I have held Sidney, and had many updates of her growing, by "aunt" Heather, and look forward to holding Bekah as well.
Hyatt & Troy are god parents to my two grandbabies, Gabriella & Caleb, and Bekah was born on Caleb's 2nd birthday, Dec.14. I'm not sure why I am rambling on except to say I love your daughter and Troy and the girls as if they are part of my own, and want you to know we are all sharing in your anquish right now and are part of the many people who are praying for a miracle. God bless you all.
With love, Linda Burns, Fishers,IN
P.S. I believe God has a special ear for Mother's prayers, and I know he is hearing many of those right now for Hyatt,Troy, the girls, you and Herman.
Troy - We received an e-mail from your mom yesterday and discovered your blog today. Your strength is an inspiration to all of us. The community of St.Lukes is praying for Hyatt and your family. God has surely heard prayers for Hyatt from around the world. He knows how badly we all want her with us. Now, we will love each other and leave the rest to Him. Love, Randy, Ellen, Amanda, Lauren and Michael Giggard
Troy, please know that Steve and I have you, Hyatt, Sidney, and Rebekah at the center of our thoughts and prayers. Know that you are surrounded by love...
Troy, we are praying hard for you now. I'm glad you are surrounded by family and friends. Hyatt is pure sunshine and we hope for a miracle. Take care, Bryan & Janelle (Pete & Patricia's friends and fellow campers).
Troy, it has been a long time since we have seen each other, but I want you to know that we are holding you and your family close to our hearts. We have been praying for you, Hyatt and your children ever since we heard the news. We have our whole church here and a church in Argentina as well as family members there praying for a miracle and we won't stop. May God fill you with some peace and encouragement through this time. We love you.
Troy, Thank you for calling me earlier today. My heart is breaking for Hyatt, for the very best friend I could have ever asked for. I love you both dearly. And through the tears, I also sincerely believe in miracles. I've seen them, been told about them, read about them. I'm praying for one more, and have sent out prayer requests here in Georgia, and back home in NC. Rhonda Rollins
Troy and family,
My prayers are with you all. As are the prayers of my friends around the country.
Troy,
Our family and friends are praying for Hyatt, you and the girls. We are especially praying for a miracle for Hyatt, and we are praying for strength and courage for you and the family. Keep your faith in God and may you be blessed. Sharon & David Foster
Pete-
BMAK(Bristow Moms and Kids) would like to hold a candlelight vigil for Hyatt. We would love for any family members to join us if you would like. It will be tonight at 8pm at Clareybrook Park(the park next to the pool off of Sudley Manor Road) It is right down from Troy and Hyatt's house. Let me know if you think you'll be able to make it. We will put our energy together to pray for a miracle for Hyatt. Thanks, Gina Butler
addiebarr30@yahoo.com
I, too, like others on this blog am part othe "SPEA gang". It is so obvious as I read these messages that Hyatt has impacted so many people in positive and meaningful ways - so wonderful! I truly believe that Heaven on Earth is the memory each of us holds in our souls of those we meet through life to make each of us the best we can be - Hyatt is certainly part of that for me. Over the past few days I have shared fond memories of Hyatt with my husband and 4-year old son of the special times the Gang had those 3 years. They were so great!!!
Troy, the girls, and others in Hyatt's family - I have thought of Hyatt constantly over the past few days and will continue to think of you during this time.
Aylin Lewallen (and Mike and Cameron)
Although you don't know me, I wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to you. Margaret, your neighbor, is my cousin's other cousin. My family and I are praying for a miracle and I have sent it out here in Louisville KY.
Troy , Sidney, Bekah, Kayla (and all) - We are reading and keeping you in our thoughts and prayers and hopes every minute ... I am just so glad that we were able to share the joys of Bekah's baptism. I look at Katherine and cannot even imagine the pain ... You have so many family and friends there in person to help - just know that we are close by and please call if/when you need us.
With love, Cindy, Chris, Katherine & Mattie
ALL of you are in our thoughts and prayers (MD, NC and beyond). As heartbroken we are we cannot even begin to understand what you are going through. Since having heard about this yesterday my thoughts and prayers have been with y'all.
Hyatt, you took me under your wing when I moved to Greensboro just in time to start the sixth grade. That has meant the world to me. And you never stopped being my friend and a never ending source of encouragement. I am very, very blessed to have you as a friend.
Troy, you and the girls are very much in my thoughts and prayers. She's something special and so are y'all...
Joey (Jocelyn) McKeon
(along with Andrea and The McKeons)
I went before God today as Hyatt's advocate and I reminded Him of the pro-life mother that she is. I stood before Him and argued her case for LIFE. I knelt before Him and cryed on her behalf that He would pour upon her the resurrection power of Jesus Christ and raise her up. All believers agree with me for Hyatt. AMEN!
Troy, this is Erin Meyer's Mom, Beverly. I had met Hyatt when she and Erin worked together. My heart goes out to you and your famiy and my thoughts and prayers are with Hyatt. Please put my name on the list if there is anything I can do or send to be of help.
It has been a long time Troy, but I still remember the wonderful young man you are. Such a good friend to Bill and so happy you were to marry this wonderful girl, your best friend.
I picture the hospital room with you all standing around Hyatt, holding her hand, talking to her, and loving her.
I see Jesus standing among you spreading His arms around you all. He is listening. He loves you. Remember, He will love you and be with you FOREVER. Trust.
Our prayers are with you all.
Troy and family,
You do not know me but I am friends with the Morrisons. I have been reading and keeping updated on Hyatt's condition and I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you! I am praying for the miracle!
Jennifer Newton
Troy,
We've never met, I'm a friend of Pete's from Colorado. I just want you to know that my family, (immediate and extended), is praying for you and Hyatt and your girls as you navigate this difficult time together. Through Pete I know what a special family you have and I know you will draw strength from your close knit relationship with all of them as well as from the strength of your faith. I'm thankful for Pete's friendship and I'm comforted knowing he's right there with you undoubtedly saying and doing all the right things because "that's what brothers do."
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Troy, I live in Manassas and heard about your situation. You and your family will be in our prayers. May God bless you, comfort you and strengthen your faith. We will pray for a miracle.
Anne
I keep reading thinking it is going to get better for you...knowing it will. Be Strong and Have Faith.
Our family and friends are praying for a Miracle. Please know that you are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.
I remember meeting Hyatt and Sidney for the First Time in the Condo in Fairfax thinking "What A Beautiful Smart Wife he has," and "What a sweet baby." She is an amazing woman and a wonderful mom and if she can rally and get back to you all you know that she will.
God Bless Hyatt, You, Your Children, Your Family and Your Friends.
Sarah Frick Armsttrong
Troy...you do not know me--I received your blog from a neighbor who attends Holy Trinity. I wanted to briefly tell you that I know someone who just recently went through what you are going through right now--I read Hyatt's prognosis to her tonight and she couldn't believe that it was the very same prognosis they gave her about her husband's brain. I'd like to send you some hope--her husband is home--he's almost fully functioning and improving at therapy each day! So do not give up yet--let Hyatt know you are not giving up, so she doesn't give up. Those doctors are not God. He actually could hear everything the whole time. He knew his wife was there cheering him on, which is what gave him what he needed to fight. So, hang in there! Keep up the good fight!
Troy & Peter, I have read through your entire blog & comments, your mom & dad called with the blog info while driving on their way to join you. I'm greatly impressed with the out pouring of prayers & love from all your friends & extended family & and your strength & courage. Since learning of Hyatt's condition Thur. morning I too have been praying for her & all of you, including her in our community Rosary here at the senior center. (Also marveling at the wonders of modern technology being able to communicate in this fashion!)May our Heavenly Father who knows what is best for each of us hear our prayers & restore Hyatt to good health. May the Holy Spirit guide the doctors & nurses as they care for her. Love & constant prayers, "Grand Aunt" Helen
Dear Troy - Fran & I were on our way to our monthly Marriage Encounter meeting tonight when we saw a double rainbow. It was a smile from God. Even in the midst of the dark clouds and rain there was a gorgeous splash of color. At our gathering Fr. Gene prayed with our community that there be a miracle of healing for Hyatt and you all have the strength to carry this cross.
With our deepest concern -
Ed & Fran (The Villages - FL)
I have just returned from the prayer service and candlelight vigil that was held for Hyatt this evening. Troy - I am amazed at your strength and your faith. We were all there for Hyatt and you and your girls and I left feeling like your strength and faith uplifted me. Thank you for that. We are praying for that MIRACLE. You said something tonight about Hyatt that has stayed with me - you said that she has often taken on much more than she can handle and always seems to get the job done and come out on the other side having accomplished it all. Well maybe this is another one of those moments - she has been given a lot to handle - but it seems she is a very strong, loving, and giving individual and we will pray and then pray harder that she comes out on the other side to show us all the power of MIRACLES.
J Gentry
To Hyatt and her Family,
I just received a message from our church (Park Valley, Haymarket) and decided to stop my work day to say a prayer for all of you. You obviously have a beautiful family founded on love, and together you will stay strong. Please let me know if there is anything we can do. I live in Haymarket and I'm also a Girl Scout leader, so we would be happy to help with meals, the home, or whatever you need.
Sincerely,
Izabella Burgess
To Hyatt and her Family,
I just received a message from our church (Park Valley, Haymarket) and decided to stop my work day to say a prayer for all of you. You obviously have a beautiful family founded on love, and together you will stay strong. Please let me know if there is anything we can do. I live in Haymarket and I'm also a Girl Scout leader, so we would be happy to help with meals, the home, or whatever you need.
Sincerely,
Izabella Burgess
To Hyatt and her Family,
I just received a message from our church (Park Valley, Haymarket) and decided to stop my work day to say a prayer for all of you. You obviously have a beautiful family founded on love, and together you will stay strong. Please let me know if there is anything we can do. I live in Haymarket and I'm also a Girl Scout leader, so we would be happy to help with meals, the home, or whatever you need.
Sincerely,
Izabella Burgess
Great words of wisdom!
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