Folks,
Today I buried Hyatt. I'm exhausted and heading to bed. I'm posting her Eulogy here ... some of the folks present asked me to do this, and I wanted to share with loved ones who were unable to attend.
Please stay tuned to this blog - the journey is not ending ...
Love,
Troy.
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I (Troy's brother Pete) have opened this site to provide updates for friends and family on Hyatt's condition. As a warning, there will be explicit details on her condition and some posts may not be for the feint of heart. Troy has asked that I do this, so that someday (soon!) Hyatt can read the details of exactly what happened.
Mary-Hyatt F. Nolan
31 comments:
It is only through my tears that I can thank you for sharing this for those of us who could not be there physically today. What an absolutely beautiful eulogy.
May God hold each of you in the palm of His mighty hand.
Troy, I am thabkful to read that you will be continuing to share your journey with us. I never had the oppurtunity to meet your beautiful wife this side of Heaven but I have been praying heavily for you and your family. My heart literally aches over your nightmare and I check this blog frequently to hear how I can best pray for you. I have several friends who are also strangers to your family but joint members of the family of God who also read and lift you up before the Father. May the Lord be more real to you than he ever has been before. You are never alone. I heard the wife of an astronaught killed in the shuttle explosion speak at a Women of Faith conference a few years ago. She spoke of how the Lord led her through Psalm 23 with the reminder that in order to have shadows there must be light; even if you can't see or feel it He is there, never to leave or forsake. God bless...
The service was beautiful and sad and bitter sweet.
We love you.
Margaret, Rich, Jamie & Lindsey Asbell
I was so sorry to hear about Hyatt's passing.
Linda, England
We are, yet again, a family who has never met you. But we want to tell you that we love you. We grew to love Hyatt, you, and the girls through this blog. We are so saddened, but not as those without hope. I look forward to the day I will meet Hyatt and give her the hug that's been aching to leave my arms. The Lord has given you such strength and the way you've handled all this, through all your grief, stands as a testimony. God bless you Troy, and the girls.
Our family is one of the miracles that you spoke of--we have never met, but we will always follow this blog; hold you in prayer and give thanks for Hyatt and you.
Troy, I just heard a song on the radio called "Christmas in Heaven". I thought about you and Hyatt. It has a beautiful message. If you get the chance, listen. Rest well, Hyatt is at peace.
God bless you and your family.
Troy,
Thanks you for sharing the beautiful eulogy for those who could not attend.
May Hyatt rest in eternal peace.
YOu and your family are in my prayers.
Hello Troy,
I too am glad to hear that you will continue with the blog. I find myself checking this many times throughout the day. I am so full of sadness for you and all of the friends and family of both you and Hyatt. It can be so consuming as I go about my daily activites and think about what you are all going through. I wanted to attend the services so badly but was not sure of how appropriate it would be never having met you or Hyatt before, even though I feel as though I have over these last three months. I am glad to be able to hear the eulogy. Please know that you and your family will NEVER be forgotten. I find myself grieving daily over this loss to the world. Be Well.
Another Bristow Mom
Alas, I keep getting an error message when I try to download the eulogy, so I can't read it. There's no doubt in my mind, though, that it was a lovely tribute to Hyatt.
May you be comforted in your time of sorrow.
Thank you Troy for sharing you life changing journey with all of us, some you don't even know.
Please know you're all still in our prayers.
God bless,
The Corzine's (Illinois)
The eulogy was absolutely beautiful Troy! Thank you for sharing it with us. We have prayed for your courage through all of this. Hyatt is home now, and you now have an Angel you can call by name.
There is a "Hyatt Place" hotel near my home here in Indy, that used to be so unassuming in the landscape when I'd drive by it daily on the interstate. But since 9/11 I can no longer look up at the giant lighted sign, high on the bldg toward the sky, and not think about YOUR Hyatt. I kept taking that little moment to say another prayer for her and your family whenever I round the corner on the road.
God Bless,
Andrea
Zionsville, IN
I have followed Hyatt's journey and prayed for you, Hyatt and the kids. Your comments and thoughts have pushed me to love a little harder,let my anger subside,cherish each hug,hand holding and kisses with my spouse,live life with more passion and treasure each moment on earth. I've taken on projects of service to those in need..things I always said I'd do but for whatever reason, didn't make it happen. My friends and I hosted a beautiful Thanksgiving meal for single moms and their children living in a shelter. I gathered my kids and their friends together to make blankets for the kids in the shelter and just last night I hosted a party for 75 old, new and dear friends. I say this not to boast about what I've done, but to tell you that your story allowed God to do His work in me with more passion and conviction than ever before. I would read the blog and make changes in my day based on your simple words of love. I will continue to follow your journey and pray for you. I will remember a woman I never even knew as somebody to inspire me to be all that God created me to be. God bless you and the kids. Hyatt is an angel now to all of us.
Thank you for sharing your story with so many people--you have no idea how it has touched so many lives, and how your words have had an impact on me and my family--thank you for your reminders to go and hug and kiss your family--I loved what you said in the Eulogy--you could actually feel the love you have for your wife coming off the page and into the heart of anyone who read it--
Thank you again and we will continue to pray for you and your family
With love,
a grateful family from Haymarket
Thanks for the offer, Allen. We appreciate your continued updates!
Please let Hyatt know that Sue and Scott Iekel-Johnson continue to pray for her and Troy daily, and that all of the rest of the Johnstown Cats are hoping and praying for her to get better.
Troy
Considering its incredibly hard to speak in front of a group, not to mention the funeral mass for your wife; you, (and Sidney, she's such a doll) did an admirable job. Take each day as it comes, rejoice in your beautiful daughters, take comfort in you family and friends, continue to put your faith in God, and you will smile again.
The Schumachers
Hrm, something strange happened with my comment, and it posted an old comment from another thread instead.
What I originally wrote was that it was wonderful to see you this past weekend, in spite of the circumstances. Sue and I couldn't believe you were able to deliver that eulogy. Thank you for sharing it here.
I was telling Sue in the car after that spending time with you is always a lesson in humility -- I will never be as good looking or as charismatic. :-)
As always, if there is anything else we can do, please let us know.
Continuing to pray for you and your family...
Love,
Scott and Sue
Troy and Family,
We attended the service for Hyatt. It was a great tribute to her life. Her witness will live on through all the lives she has touched in life, in dying and in death.
Love to all of you.
Troy,
You and your dear family have been in my thoughts and prayers daily. You don't know how many of us you have touched by your thoughts. Your faith is immeasurable, and profound, and I know that you will share all of the love you had for Hyatt, with your girls in the years to come. I also have been a prayer person, a Lord of Life Lutheran member who heard about Hyatt through our prayer chain. Just know that people care, and are praying for you and your family right now.
troy
I am so sorry that hyatt is gone. I am so sorry. Take care.
Tingfang
I saw that someone had heard a song entitled 'Christmas in Heaven'. I searched for the song online and in doing so I came across this poem. I hope it brings you and the girls a smile and some peace this holiday. I continue to pray for you all.
I see the countless CHRISTMAS TREES around the world below
with tiny lights like HEAVEN’S STARS reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so SPECTACULAR please wipe away that tear
for I am spending CHRISTMAS WITH JESUS CHRIST this year.
I hear the many CHRISTMAS SONGS that people hold so dear
but the SOUND OF MUSIC can't compare with the CHRISTMAS CHOIR up here.
I have no words to tell you of the JOY their voices bring
for it is beyond description to HEAR THE ANGELS SING.
I know HOW MUCH YOU MISS ME, I see the pain inside your heart
for I am spending CHRISTMAS WITH JESUS CHRIST this year.
I can't tell you of the SPLENDOR or the PEACE here in this place
Can you just imagine CHRISTMAS WITH OUR SAVIOR face to face
I'll ask him to LIFT YOUR SPIRIT as I tell him of your love
so then PRAY FOR ONE ANOTHER as you lift your eyes above.
Please let your HEARTS BE JOYFUL and let your SPIRIT SING
for I am spending CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN and I’m walking WITH THE KING.
Wow - what a beautiful eulogy you wrote for Hyatt. I sit here in my chair tearing up reading about her and her life! I knew it from past entries but this one just confirmed what a great women she was.
Again, I have never met you or Hyatt but was brought here to this blog shortly after word spread in internet world and have been glued to it hoping for a miracle.
I look forward to catching up as you continue this blog and continue the journey of your lives! Hyatt will always be with you in spirit and forever in your heart!
God Bless you -- have you hugged your girls today?????
I say that phrase to my three kids daily...Has Mommy hugged you today? They laugh and come running to me! Thank you for reminding me that life is short and live each day to the fullest!
~Wendy
Troy,
Your eulogy for Hyatt was beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing it with those of us who could not attend her services.
I came across this verse today and thought of you:
One day I will wipe away every tear from your eyes. --Revelation 21:4
Hang in there and know that true love transcends all earthly boundaries.
You are an amazing example of the true meaning of what it is to be a disciple of Christ. I am so sorry for your loss and for the loss your children have and will experience, but there is no doubt in my mind that families are forever. I hope you believe this and find a sliver of comfort in it.
An old friend of Hyatt's from High School jenny
Troy,
I am sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing Hyatt with all of us. May God take away the pain from your heart. Only God can touch you, heal you and help you be there for the girls. He will help you smile when you want to cry infront of the girls. Above all, may He lead us all back to Himself.
May God bless your family. And Hyatt, thank you for living such a full life and for all the lessons we have learned from you.
Please find comfort in knowing that He promised to be with you always.
Dear Troy,
You have been in my thoughts all week. I have been praying for you and your girls. I cannot imagine how difficult your journey has been. Know that people around the world hold you close in their hearts and are thinking about you daily. Sending many blessings to your family as the holidays approach. Wishing you peace, comfort, and healing.
Love from Phoenix, AZ
V
Troy you and your family are in my thoughts daily. I was unable to read the eulogy from the link on the blog..if someone reading this has another link, please post it.
I pray that the days and nights get a little easier. You are not alone..know that people who have never even met you are praying for you each day.
Thinking of you and saying a prayer for you and the girls tonight. Hang in there.
Troy, I just want to tell you that I think of you and pray everyday for you and the girls. I grieve for you and the girls and yet I trust God and his grace to be sufficient for you through the pain of your own grief and loss. When/If you ever feel alone, please know that there are many folks who care and bear this burden with you even though we can't walk down this road for you. We are here. Praying for strength for you in the coming days.
Love and a Hug,
GarvyS
Troy,
I am sending prayers and love to you and your family. I can't imagine how difficult this holiday season is for you. Please know that so many of us continue to hold you and your girls in our thoughts and prayers EVERY day. I hope that helps a little bit.
God bless you.
Thinking of you all, and praying for you... each day and especially during this holiday season. Still, we never met, but my thoughts are with you and your dear girls oh so often.
Wishing you a Merry Christmas and God's blessings-
Ashli George
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