Friday, October 10, 2008

Month Long Vigil

I am surprised as I age how much of my parent's wisdom has been correct and is increasingly becoming my own. My father used to tell me that time moves much faster as you age. To a sixteen year old, everything that comes from your parents is suspect, but I was always intrigued by this particular nugget of information. I am just now getting used to writing 2008 on checks and documents as the prospect of 2009 looms ahead. It would seem that once again my father was correct. That said, the last month has moved at a snail's pace. Every new day brings the blessings of our lives and a consistent question: How's Hyatt? I cannot tell you how much it means to Troy to read your comments and e-mails after 30 days of pain and doubt. The message is clear - Troy we are still here, still praying, and always hopeful. Thank You!

I wish I had better news to report today after a month long vigil, but I am learning some patience through this process and am thankful it is at least a positive report. Hyatt seems to be recovering from the infection the medical staff discovered this weekend. A CAT Scan revealed her kidneys as the source of the infection and the doctors believe they can beat it. The scan also revealed a blood clot in one of her legs so she is on a blood thinner to help treat and prevent future clots. This is not an uncommon condition for someone who is bedridden.

Troy and I are off to visit a rehabilitation facility this afternoon, one of three recommended by a friend who works in this field. Please join me in offering a special thank you to Tracy for all her help and guidance in this area. She is yet another of Hyatt's Best Friends.

Thank you again for your prayerful vigilance.

Allen

23 comments:

Anonymous said...

Allen,

Thank you for the update. I am happy to hear that Hyatt is recovering from the infection. My thoughts prayers remain with you.

Anonymous said...

We are here! If there were some way for you to see the traffic on this site, I bet you'd be amazed at the number of people who check in on Hyatt on a daily basis and say a little silent prayer for her recovery.

Anonymous said...

I don't know Hyatt, but found out about her from a friend of a friend. I have been thinking about her and trying to pray for her. I say trying because my spiritual connection is not as strong as I want it to be, but I really wanted to pray for her.

Yesterday afternoon I went for a walk and was thinking of Hyatt and praying for her and praying to God to help me pray for her. Just then I noticed that the sun was setting in the distance behind the trees. I stopped dead in my tracks, because the angle was just right so that the sunbeams were breaking right through the trees and the misty air, and seemed to be reaching right towards me. I stopped right there and prayed for Hyatt. As I prayed I noticed one of the sunbeams seemed to be right in front of me. I reached out, and could feel warmth on my hand.

I believe this was God's way of telling me he heard my prayer. I was praying for strength for Hyatt and for her family and friends. I will continue to pray for her. God bless you all.

Anonymous said...

Yes, we are still here, still caring, and still checking on Hyatt and Troy (through this blog) everyday. I don't know the Nolans but live in their area and, as a mother, have been deeply touched by their situation. I have always appreciated my life and blessings but, like most, find it easy to get caught up in the mundane. To say that reading this blog has heightened my awareness and tremendous appreciation for the "little things" (that are actually the big things) is an understatement. In that respect, as Hyatt heals, so do many of us. Stay strong and know that you have a tremendous support network behind you.

Unknown said...

I don't have much to say, but wanted to say that we're still praying and hoping for that miracle. Stay strong, Troy!

Thanks for the continued updates.

--Scott, Sue, Alex, and Jessie IJ

Anonymous said...

I cant help but think this is all part of Gods plan. To bring us together, to strengthen our faith and to help those find faith.

Maybe this is part of Hyatts plan too. Her faith is and has always been so strong. For those of you who didn't know her, she was the kind of person that wore her faith on her sleeve and did it the most graceful way. I always loved that about her and admired that about her. She made me want a stronger faith and now she has me praying all day and everyday. How Hyatt would be proud.

And Troy- she is proud of you!!! She sees and hears your FAITH and LOVE. This I AM CERTAIN!

Thinking of you and praying for you all. JW

Anonymous said...

I wanted to let you know that the Tibetan Buddhist monks at the Kumbum Chamtse Ling Monastery right down the road from where Hyatt went to grad school (Bloomington, IN) will be chanting prayers for Hyatt's recovery TOMORROW (Saturday) at 3:00pm. Anyone who's in the area is welcome to attend--contact me at meyer_erin at bah.com and I'll get you the info.

Anonymous said...

Hyatt continues to be in my constant thoughts and prayers.
A friend from High School

Anonymous said...

Still keeping up and still praying.

Anonymous said...

I snuggled with my little girl tonight at bedtime for an extra long time. Thank you, Troy, for making us want to hug a little longer.
a BMAK mommy

Anonymous said...

Andy and I read this Blog everyday checking on Hyatt's progress. People have shared miracle stories with me of situations similar to Hyatt's. I truly believe in the power of prayer and that miracles do happen. Thank you Troy for reminding us everyday to give our loved ones extra hugs and kisses. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your family.
Andy and Jennifer Phelps

Anonymous said...

We are still here too. Everyday. Often. Holding you all up in prayer. Still hoping for Hyatt's miracle healing. Trusting God to be merciful. Always glad for any updates and thoughts shared. Prayers also for God's wisdom and peace in all Troy's decision-making. Bob and Pat Geipel

Anonymous said...

Yes, we are still her and praying everyday but we are also still spreading the word to pray for a miracle. I am on a business trip in Alpharetta, Georgia and I have added Hyatt's name to a list of sick people to pray for in the Sunday bulletin of the church I am attending while down here. I also wear the purple ribbon everyday since the parade to always remember to pray any time I have a free minute. And, everyday I have people asking me what the ribbon is for and every one of the people has said "I will keep Hyatt in my prays".

So while we are still praying daily, more and more people are adding to the number of prayers for Hyatt and the family.

faye said...

In the 20 years of being in the medical field, I have never been touched as I have been by Hyatt and Troy. I was lucky enough to be one of her caregivers at PwH. Troy, if you remember I'm just a tech.... Keep talking to Hyatt, touch her, keep her Ipod playing.
and keep this blog going.

Anonymous said...

We don't know you, but eever since I rad this blog, I think of Hyatt everyday, and have prayed for her....I will continue soon she will come back to you and your girls!

Anonymous said...

Troy - I only met Hyatt once, years ago through a friend of a friend. I was sent this blog right after all of these events started...and as a wife and mother, I cannot even imagine how all of you are navigating through this incredibly difficult time. Your strength astounds me...and even though I don't know Hyatt well at all, I am sure she would beam just knowing all that you, your family and friends have done to bring her home. I think of you, pray for you and your girls, and pray for Hyatt each day. And I have sent on the request for prayers to several close friends, who all are praying equally hard for your miracle to come true. May Hyatt heal and come home soon...thoughts and prayers from North Carolina, Oregon, Idaho, New York and Canada are coming at you each and every day.

Anonymous said...

Troy, Hyatt, Sid, & Bekah -

You all remain in my prayers, as always. Being on the other side of the world at the moment allows as Troy said to me, "for the sun to never set on our prayers for Hyatt". Thank you Allen & Troy for the continued updates on Hyatt -- my family and I hang on every word and continue the prayer vigil (spanning across many time zones).

Love you all,
Jenn Reed

Anonymous said...

Troy,
Not much new on our end, either. Still checking your blog, praying for you, and occasionally crying for you. No wisdom to add, but I guess it's important to let you know we haven't forgotten you.
Terry and Neil

Anonymous said...

Still keeping you guys in our thoughts and prayers. Thanks for continuing to keep us posted.

Anonymous said...

My husband and I have been praying for Hyatt. We received prayer requests from our church and Teams of Our Lady as well as from friends in the neighborhood. It was just recently that I asked my neighbor what all the purple ribbons were for that I learned she is our neighbor too! We've sold them Girl Scout cookies every year and trick or treated at their house. I pass their house many times a day. I pray that they may be lifted in prayer by friends near and far, those that know them and those who don't. We will be praying for your miracle. We've been praying the Infant of Prague Novena and Memorae and have and will continue to offer Masses. Please if there's anything else we can do, just let us know.
Matt and Lisa Moore

Anonymous said...

I think of Hyatt very often although I have never met her. It is becoming more and more obvious to me that what happened to her is not just a "tragic event". And although nobody can pin point what the bigger meaning is, we all feel that there is a bigger plan here. May be it is to remind us of the beauty that life brings despite everything else; may be to make us feel the urge to pray with all of our heart; may be it is to bring us closer to each other and realize the strength that gives us.

I have a vision that I play over and over and over in my head- I see a hospital room with a single bed. I can smell flowers and see the almost golden shimmer of the air around. And then I see Hyatt… sitting on her bed with a laptop on her lap reading this blog. I see see tears beginning to form in her eyes but I sense a feeling of peace, comfort and hope. She has come back to a much better place…

Anonymous said...

Every time I pass my mailbox as I come and go each day, I glance at Hyatt's purple ribbon and think of Hyatt, Troy and their sweet girls. I continue to hope for Hyatt's recovery and for peace for your family.

Anonymous said...

Allen & Troy,

I am honored to be in the Hyatt's Best Friend Club. There is no thank you needed for the info I gave you. You all are most welcome. I am here if you need anything else.

Tracy